Shop Talk
This job has made me prejudice
It's accents.
Mary Mother of God but there are accents that piss me off. I pre-judge based on accents... I never used to before working here but this place does it.
But if you say something like "I keep my stuff tight, yo. I want my peeps to see my phone and say that's a tight phone." My mental response is. "Yes, and you're an idiot." Because I experience only the accent and language, it's all verbal and every person I've spoken to who uses that sort of slang, what I see as inner-city-I-want-to-be-cool language, the person using it has been just about a dumb as dirt... as dumb as the people who can...
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I have no problem saying I have prejudices. I know better than to go to the hood at 11 PM with my classic rock blaring from my car windows...
or going to a bbq at a white guys house when you're the only olived tone person there.... 🤣
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P.S. It's odd when a non christian/catholic says a phrase like "mary, mother of god"
Nikoletta said:...
It has nothing to do with location or skin color, gender, age or ethnic background, I honestly don't give a crap about that stuff...
It's accents.
Mary Mother of God but there are accents that piss me off. I pre-judge based on accents... I never used to before working here but this place does it.
But if you say something like "I keep my stuff tight, yo. I want my peeps to see my phone and say that's a tight phone." My mental response is. "Yes, and you're an idiot." Because I experience only the accent and language, it's all verbal and every person I've spoken to who uses that sort of slang, what I see as inner-city-I-want-to-be-cool language, the person using it has been just about a dumb as d
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It's not a pre-judgement you don't think before you answer the call "I hope its not another negro!" You both make current judgements, or a "judgement". Which I may add is not your freaking job, You are not a social worker. You are not a language coach as is apparent in your pluralization of "speak" (in which the hypocrisy is astounding!). How about you shut the hell up about the life choises about your customers lives and focus on your own!
They are not prejudices, they are just plan "ignorances" to pull a word out of my ass, something I am going to use when someone is being "ignorant" about "ignorant" people.
alejandro said:
You are not a language coach as is apparent in your pluralization of "speak" (in which the hypocrisy is astounding!). How about you shut the hell up about the life choises about your customers lives and focus on your own!
They are not prejudices, they are just plan "ignorances" to pull a word out of my ass, something I am going to use when someone is being "ignorant" about "ignorant" people.
Before you tell someone they're not a language coach or call them a hypocrite, try running spell check...it's "choices", not "choises", and there should have been an apostrophe after "customers" since it is plural...and "ignorances" is definitely not a word. 🙄 🙄 🙄 :ro...
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It should also be noted that i was not riding a high horse about the language skills about other people, only pointing out your deficit while doing so.
I hate what this job has done to me but I hate some of the people who call in more.
Displacement & scapegoating, wikipedia
Displacement operates subconsciously and involves emotions, ideas, or wishes being transferred from their original object to a more acceptable substitute. It is most often used to allay anxiety.
In scapegoating, aggression is displaced onto people with little political power such as minority-group members.
Though to be sure the problem resides completely with your callers and not yourself or your company 🙄