BlackBerry Pearl 8130

1. Is there any way to get the 8130 to make a noise when there is voice mail waiting for me? 2. Is there any way to turn off the vibrate every time an email is received? 3. When I select Loud for the ring volume I get vibrate instead. If I want my phone to ring with a ring tone I must select normal? I must be doing something wrong..... What is it? Thanks for any help you all can give me. Bill