if you go on 2 dates with a guy and he doesnt call, but when you call him he's always happy to talk and stuff ... would you keep calling him or wait for him to call you? cuz maybe he's just the type that doesn't phone people .. i dunno ... i want to ask him out for saturday night or should i wait for him to make the next move?
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Take the initiative. If he isn't interested, you'll find out soon enough, but if he is, but shy/stupid/set in his ways, then you will never get another opportunity
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i dunno, i don't wanna be "just friends" because i have enough friends!! but i don't want to waste my time and end up getting all wrapped up in a dead end adventure either
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Sounds like excessive fretting to me. SOunds like the holy **** exhilaration of prospective romance, more appropriately.
Relax. Friends that you don't want are eventually reduced to aquaintances, and adventures aren't adventures because they always go somewhere, much less the place you wanted them to go.
Make and lose a friend, or go on an adventure. You really have nothing to doubt or to lose on this one.
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i dunno, **** happens i guess, if he calls GOOD, if not .. his loss!! .... or i'll call him tomorrow night and strong arm him!!
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come on now that's not nice 🙂
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Sigh
I almost ask myself why you asked the forum if you obviously had a course of action that was most probable.
Also, stop being so ambivalent about it. If it is always going to be "I dunno, I dunno..."
I recommend no action at all. Holding patterns are safe, albeit, a little banal.
Moral?: DO OR DO NOT, BUT DON'T SIT THE FENCE TOO LONG OR YER ASS GETS NUMB!
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i'm always open to suggestion =) that's why i asked
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Ha ha, fair enough 😎
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wait for him to call u , if he doesent call you beck than he just is not that interested in you, guys know there role in a date situation
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well...having many friends who play girls all the time...I doubt he's shy. I'm sorry to say...but...and you probably a great girl and any guy would love to be with you, but this guy you're talking about is dating more than one girl. He's so busy trying to keep track of all of them, he forgets to call, but if you call him, he wants to keep you in the circle so he's happy to talk to you. My best friend does the same thing and right now he's doing this to 7 different girls and all have no idea they aren'y #1 in his life, but when they call him, he finds time to talk to them.
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that's just dirty, and mean
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i once was seeing 2 guys at once .... one from out of town and one from regina ... well the out of town guy comes in and says lets to the state tonight ... okay that's fine with me since regina guy NEVER goes there .... so there we are at the state in all our glory and in walks the regina guy .... well i had to do some fast talking to get outta that pickle!! it sure was funny though!! still has me laughing 5 years later 🤣
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i laugh when it comes to guy or girls playing each other, i mean really its funny the amount of time it takes to track different ppl and to track what your doing takes more t6ime out of your life than actually going somewhere with your life... likei mean when your in highschool the playing game was fun and all but lol it never goes anywhere
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