LG VX-8000

I do understand what to do in relation to getting MP3s and stuff once the phone is connected, as referenced in the page long thread.. The only problem is, i am using the correct cable as referenced and i cannot seem to get it to connect to my phone... can someone please link up a page that shows how to get this cable and phone to sync up with the software QSPT(i think thats what it is called). Thank for the help.. i just hope i can get this to work...