LG VX-8100

i have checked all over this forum and over at Howard forums and i can't find the answer. much appreciated if someone can explain to me how to connect the 8100 (Telus version) to bitpim (version 0.9.02) using a bluetooth dongle. i paired the phone and my pc, but i can't get it to connect via serial port service with my driver, only as a dial-up networking service. i changed the bitpim settings to lg 8100 and to detect the com port automatically and tried them all manually as well, but it does not detect my phone. PLEASE HELP!