HTC EVO 4G

I just got an evo today and was setting up my people widget. Put my girlfriend on and linked to her facebook account. After installing everyone I noted that she was further down the list than I wanted her to be. So my though was to delete her then reinstall her. I then did what I though was correct. this was to go into her on the widget, click menu then delete. This did not have the desired effect. She is still in the widget, I think she is still in my contacts (nt sure, seems to be sometimes but not others) her facebook profile seems to have been deleted and I cannot relink to it etc...

So All of you android htc wizzes out there help me undo what I have done.

Thanks in advance