Top message: Re-gain her respect by Riot_Act
Replying to: Re: You're thinking to hard about this by Riot_Act
Re: You're thinking to hard about this
At this point, his focus needs to be on making himself better and providing for the kids. He might think that having a 'good' relationship with the baby momma is important, but in reality i'm sure its some deeper seeded issue like he just wants to be liked by everybody, probably due to insecurity.
THIS IS ALL SPECULATION, of course, but generally when people are concerned with having everybody like/respect them, its usually from a deep seeded insecurity issue.
What i've found is that worrying about making everybody like you generally makes you weak willed, and a pushover. When you feel like that you're not in a good head-space. This is when its important to be selfish and focus on only making yourself happy without taking other peoples feelings in account.
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